YOU ARE STILL WORTHY,YOU ARE STILL DESTINED FOR GREATNESS
Not a single person on earth is always good and never sins.A lot of times we beat ourselves up because we just cant seem to seem to get it all together.
Some people will tell you that your life ended when you had your baby,truth is, your life has just begun.And you're lucky you had to start experiencing life at a young age.
Your child will not take away from your future,your child will give you a new one.Being a mother is not about what you gave up to have a child but what you gained from one.
Motherhood is not a hobby,it is a calling.It is not something to do if you can squeeze the time in.It is what GOD gave you time for.
Being a young parent means you met your angel a little early and as such you will get to love her/him a little longer.
Your baby/babies will know you in a way no one ever has,they will open you to things you never knew existed.
They will drive you to insanity and push you to your depths.They are the beat of your heart,the pulse of your veins and the energy in your soul.
You probably don't know that it is possible to grow through motherhood,but it is.
There's no way to be a perfect mother but a million ways to be one.
And one of them is securing your future because you can only secure your child's life if you secure yours too.
What are you doing to better yourself this very moment?
You cannot spend your life thinking that you deserve a handout or sympathy.You have to get up and start thriving towards your goal.No one ever stumbled upon something great while still sited,lying ,wallowing or having themselves a pity party.YOU HAVE GOT TO MOVE!
Step out of that zone and don't conform to the molds that many people ascribe to you.
If its that college degree,that high school education you are yet to finish,work on it.It is not going to be easy but it will be worth it in the long run.It is easy to be pleasant when life flows along like a song but the wise man will still hold a smile even though the pendulum of his life seems to oscillate from how things don't work out to what on earth is he supposed to do to things better.SO SMILE!
Therefore take pride in your education and push yourself past people's obvious disgust of your situation,remember the society is also made up of scoundrels,neer'do wells who do nothing but utter infantile comments about you but the good thing is that it defines who they are,not you.
Years from now, you will look back with nothing but tender,heartfelt memories,from that first smile,to her first steps,first day at school etc.A zoetrope of the memories and a palette of their life/lives will run in your mind and you'll have the biggest smile ever.Because you made it!
Is it always easy?heck no! But does that have to do with your age?Absolutely not!
So hang in there and don't let anyone get you down,because in spite of-or maybe it is because of-your young age,you will flourish.Motherhood is a job you were born to do.
You should therefore teach your kid(s) to look to GOD and not man for validation and worth because GOD is the author and finisher of her faith.Help her fear only GOD and not man
And remind her that the mission field f home is a battle ground worth fighting for.
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