This is my story...I am [under 18] years old and pregnant with my boyfriend's baby.Well ex-boyfriend actually. After having dated for a few months,we started having sex but we couldn't agree on somethings so i kinda pushed him away and as such didn't let hi have sex with me.he pleaded and begged but i didn't give in.As a result we fell out for a couple of weeks after he demanded that he needs space to think about where our relationship was headed.He came around after a month or so and invited me to his place.I
went to his house one evening telling my parents (who had no idea I had
a boyfriend) that i was at a friend's house.When i got there,i found some of his friends there with alcohol all over the place,so we got drunk together.Apparently,my boyfriend spiked my booze and I didn't suspect a thing when I woke up fully dressed on his
sofa. It was only when I went to take a shower that i found my pant wet with what seemed like cum.I confronted him and to utter surprise ,he confirmed that he ha actually spiked my booze to have sex with me since i had"denied" him what was rightfully his as his girlfriend. A few days later,started getting pregnancy symptoms to which i took three tests, all clearly positive. I told my two
best friends who really supported me, then eventually went to a teacher
at my school, who referred my friend and i to a teacher with more
authority. When I was asked if I was pregnant, I lied saying I thought
I may be imagining things, and the teachers haven't asked me since. I'm
now 2-and-a-half months pregnant and a bump is starting to show, I am
constantly getting back pains and cramps in my stomach. When I told my
boyfriend, he said he never wanted to see me again and that's how we broke up. I was really scared,
but eventually I figured that I had to tell someone who could help and
give me advise.Of course abortion is not an option.After all, this baby has done
nothing wrong, and I believe that this is what God wanted or it
wouldn't have happened. At first I felt very alone, too scared to tell
anyone, but I see now that I needed this support. By telling you this,
I want to send out the message that, should you be in a similar
situation, you are not alone, there is a lot of help out there for you.
I told a responsible adult, rather than trying to tackle an unwanted
teenage pregnancy on my own. This will change my life, but everything
happens for a reason. I hope you learn from or are inspired by my
story, and know that no matter what happens, there is always a way to
get through it."
~anonymous
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